5 Signs He Really Is That Into You
So you've gone out on several dates, he’s been very romantic, sending you flowers, taking you to wonderful restaurants, and generally sweeping you off of your feet. You’re starting to think you’d like...
View ArticleLong Distance Relationship? 3 Questions to Ask Yourself
So many of you have come to me with questions about long-distance relationships and how to make the best of them and what to do when you’re in them, that it’s time to delve a little deeper into what...
View ArticleIt's Time to Raise the Bar!
Don't ever doubt that you teach him how to treat you. That each of us teaches each and every man out there how to treat us and every other woman who comes after us. When you're wondering how he can ask...
View ArticleSo What If He Hasn't Called
Photo Credit: Copyright (c) 123RF Stock Photos I remember it all too well. We had exchanged phone numbers, and now the ball was in his court. Then the anxiety would start: Would he call? How long would...
View ArticleDoes She Deserve This?
I saw her sitting there all alone today, watching all the couples laughing around her. She was still waiting for him to show … does she deserve this? I saw her trying to hide the tears as she kept...
View ArticleDrop The Rules
Do this. Do that. Don’t do this. Don’t do that. No wonder you’re exhausted and ready to give up, my beautiful friend. Trying to figure out how to find love is exhausting when you’re doing it like this!...
View ArticleWhy Asking Him "Why?" Never Works
I know - you want to know why. Why hasn't he called? Why is he getting distant? Why won’t he commit? You had a great first date, maybe even some wonderful second and third dates, maybe even a couple of...
View ArticleThe Simple Truth About Why He Didn't Call
Have you ever met a guy, hung out with him for a while, maybe even went out with him on a date, and you thought everything went so well – but then he never called? You just can't understand it – it...
View Article3 Simple Ways to Know Where's He's Really At
We all want to know it's going to be different this time. He seems different. It feels different. And yet instead of remembering that we've been down this road too many times before, we do the same...
View ArticleWhy the Simple Answer to 'Why Hasn’t He Called?' Is Never, Ever Enough
At one point or another in our dating lives, we've all asked ourselves the all too common question, Why hasn't he called? And we've all heard the simple (and mostly true) answer: If he’s interested,...
View ArticleHis Side of the Story
“I've never treated anyone as bad as I treated you, Jane. I just wasn't there but I didn't know how to communicate this to you.” It was the other side of the story, the one I never heard before. But...
View ArticleDoes It Matter Who Does the Calling?
Our dear friend, who calls herself "Agonizing in Ohio", is asking the questions just about all of us have asked ourselves at one time or another (some of us many, many times): Why hasn't he called, and...
View ArticleHow Calling or Texting Him Only Changes One Thing
Calling or texting him won't change him, but it will change you! It's the 21st century. A most confusing time when it comes to the age-old question of "Can I call him or do I have to wait for him to...
View ArticleHe's Choosing, Too
What he wants is what he's choosing. Amidst all the excuses we have for him. Amidst all the stories we tell ourselves about why he treats us the way he does. Amidst all the reasons we have for staying...
View ArticleShould I Call or Text? I Don't Want to Lose Him
I haven't heard from him since Sunday. Should I call or text? What do you do when you're afraid he's going to go back to his ex? Our letter this week comes from our gorgeous friend Hannah, who is going...
View ArticleMy Boyfriend Barely Ever Calls or Texts
Is it a bad sign he doesn't want to check in with me? Our beautiful friend, Abby, is going crazy because her boyfriend almost never calls her or texts her, and she's wondering what it means. Here's her...
View ArticleShould I Reach Out To Him?
He hasn't called - should I reach out to him? Today on the blog, I’m featuring a letter that could have been written by so many of you. It’s such a familiar story that just about all of us can relate...
View ArticleShould I Call it Quits or Keep Trying?
Should I ask him what is going on, or just move on? Our letter this week comes from beautiful Gail. She's seeing the signs of the slowly disappearing man, but she's not quite ready to let go and she's...
View Article3 Simple Ways to Know Where's He's Really At
We all want to know it's going to be different this time. He seems different. It feels different. And yet instead of remembering that we've been down this road too many times before, we do the same...
View ArticleWhy the Simple Answer to 'Why Hasn’t He Called?' Is Never, Ever Enough
At one point or another in our dating lives, we've all asked ourselves the all too common question, Why hasn't he called? And we've all heard the simple (and mostly true) answer: If he’s interested,...
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